The beginning of a new year offers a fresh start, and what better way to begin than by setting family resolutions together? When kids are involved in goal‑setting, the experience becomes meaningful, fun and memorable, and not just another list of shoulds. This blog will guide you through creating resolutions that are doable, kid‑friendly and impactful for your whole family.
1. Start with a Family Vision Session
Gather as a family with paper, markers, sticky notes and snacks. Ask each person:
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What are three things I loved about last year?
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What do I hope for this year?
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What fun thing do I want to try with my family?
Write everyone’s responses on a whiteboard or chart. This helps everyone feel heard and sets the tone for shared goals.
2. Choose “One Word” for the Year
Rather than overwhelming long lists, pick a word of the year for your family and individually. For example: Explore, Kindness, Grow, Adventure. Post it somewhere visible like on the fridge or a chalkboard, and remind yourselves what it means when you make decisions through the year.
3. Make Resolutions Fun and Doable
Kids thrive when goals are simple and actionable. Use the SMART framework:
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Specific: “We will read together 2 nights a week.”
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Measurable: “We’ll mark it on our chart.”
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Achievable: Choose something realistic now.
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Relevant: It matters to the family.
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Time‑bound: Set a check‑in date (e.g., March 1).
Skip the pressure and focus on progress.
4. Create a Family Goals Chart
Design a chart or printable poster where you can track progress. Include:
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The resolution name
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Who is responsible
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Who will help
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A reward or celebration when mini‑milestones are reached
Hang it where kids can see it and feel proud of what they’re working toward.
5. Break Goals into Small Steps
Large goals can feel overwhelming. Break them into weekly or monthly milestones. For example: If the goal is “Have one outdoor adventure each month,” the first milestone could be “Pick a date and place by January 15.” Completing a mini‑task builds momentum and confidence.
6. Include Individual and Family Goals
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Family Goal: “Have a board‑game night once a month.”
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Individual Goal: “Learn to swim by June.”
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Let kids pick their own goal and you pick one; wrap up with a “family fun goal” everyone does together.
7. Celebrate Progress & Re‑Adjust
Plan regular check‑in chats—perhaps once a month. Look at the chart:
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What’s working?
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What needs adjustment?
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Should we celebrate anything?
Celebrate even small wins with a fun outing, a special dessert or high‑fives. Keep the energy positive.
8. Make the Tradition Visible
Save a jar labeled “2026 Memories & Wins.” Whenever you hit a milestone, write it on a slip and drop it in. At the end of the year, open it together and reflect on how far you’ve come.
Setting family resolutions is less about perfection and more about direction, connection and creating memories. When you involve kids, keep things simple, and make tracking fun, you’ll set your family up for a year filled with action and joy. Ready to begin? Grab your markers, pick a special spot, and let the year ahead be one your family will talk about for years to come.
